Knock Knock...Doo Da?!

Celia and Mikey have discovered the wonderful world of knock-knock jokes.  God help us all.  I made the mistake of teaching them the Interrupting Cow joke one day.  You know, "Knock, knock.  Who's there?  Interrupting cow.  Interrupting cow...MOOOO!"  They finally got the comic timing down on that one, so it's actually funny...to someone hearing it for the first time.  For a long time, Mikey would just moo after someone said, "Interrupting cow who?"  And that was just confusing.  Anyway, they sometimes shake it up by being an interruping duck, cat, or zebra (also confusing).  But what they really like to do (and this is no surprise to anyone with preschoolers) is make up jokes that make no sense.  They laugh at themselves like they should have their own late-night show or something, while I stand by shaking my head and trying to muster a fake guffaw.  Even Mikey has started imitating my fake laugh after jokes.  Now, THAT's funny!  The nonsense jokes often go something like, "Knock knock.  Who's there?  Car.  Car who?  Car on your head that fell in the cereal and landed on the floor and then poo pooed!"  You see my problem.

Anyway, a truly hilarious side effect of all of these horrible jokes is that Xavier is actually starting to mimic them.  To this point, at 11 months, he really just babbles a bit, saying, "Mamama" when he's upset and "Dadadada" when he's happy.  Yeah, that's right.  That's the thanks I get for changing 99% of his diapers.  Sigh.  Anyway, it's cute and sweet.  But back to the jokes.  Celia and Mikey probably say, "Knock knock.  Who's there?"  more than anything said in this house except maybe, "Mooooom, it's MY turn!"  So, Xavier has started picking up on it.  When the big kids say, "Knock knock," Xavier replies with "Doo Dah?" with perfect inflection, clearly trying to say, "Who's there?"  It's really just about the cutest thing ever.  No really.   Those pictures of puppies and kittens cuddling...forget it...they're a pile of garbage compared to my adorable son trying to get in on the joke!

Celia's first word was cat.  She came downstairs with me every morning and we greeted our pet cat Roma.  Mikey's first word was book...well, really it was guk, but we knew what he meant.  It would crack me up if Xavier works out "Who's there?" as his first word.  And it makes me wonder what other unusual firsts he might have with his early childhood influenced by his crazy siblings.  What will he be motivated by for his first steps?  Probably Mikey encouraging him to come and see the monster poop he made in the potty.  Sigh...sad but true...the kid is amazed by his own...umm...projects.  His first tooth will probably make its appearance when Celia encourages him to take a nibble of her "Mr. Torty Head" sandwich.  (She likes to roll up lunch meat and cheese in a tortilla.  They were inspired by Toy Story 3 to name the sandwich Mr. Tortilla Head but mispronounce it.  If you don't understand the reference, please come to my house and watch the movie with my children while I go shopping).  So, yeah, I'm eager to see what other fun and funny influences the big 'uns have on the little 'un.

While I may not get the humor, Xavier thinks his big brother and sister are the funniest two people on the planet.  I have to work pretty hard tickling just the right spots, making silly faces.  But Celia and Mikey have his number.  Celia can just open her eyes really wide, and he'll crack up.  Mikey has this frenetic dance that sends Xavier into hysterics.  Wait til they're all teenagers and get the same jokes that I don't have a clue of the reference. I'm getting a little taste already. 

Top 10 Inventions Mothers Would Invent if We Had the Time

At least a dozen times a day, I think, "Hey, there should be a thingy that does that for you!  I should invent that.  Other mothers would love it, and I'd be rich!"  But then Mother-Brain sets in and I promptly forget what the great idea was until the problem that initiated the idea in the first place presents itself the next day.  And the cycle repeats.  By the way, for anyone who is a mother, you immediately said, "Ah, yes, Mother-Brain.  I understand completely."  And for those of you who can't relate, let me elaborate on my theory of this oft-misunderstood malady.  Mother-Brain is a condition that often starts during pregancy.  You see, the blood that used to flow to a mother's brain to help her get through studying for the bar, make a brilliant speech in front of brilliant business people, or in my case explain iambic pentameter, is now flowing to the baby who will some day be able to do all of those things...but the mother will never be able to do those things with quite the same gusto.  Why?  She transferred the gusto to the baby.  Now, many moms go on to do great things, mind you.  But my theory is that it requires a whole different energy source than before.  It might be caffeine or chocolate or well, I don't know what others use, but I use caffeine and chocolate.  And the energy to the brain problem doesn't end when the baby's born.  Oh no.  The sleep deprevation depletes even more brain cells, making it doubly challenging to express thoughts in a cohesive manner...or really even have cohesive thoughts to begin with.  And once they sleep through the night, that cures the problem, right?  Oh no, dear friends, that's when the constant barrage of questions comes.  "Mom, why are frogs green?  Why can't I have corn dogs for breakfast?  What happens when you flush the potty?  What are germs?  Does God have hair?  Where are my pants?"  Why, I've used up every ounce of brainpower before 7:30 AM! 

But if I did have the energy to put together a pitch to a gadget company of some sort.  Here are the ideas I've come up with so far.

10.  Swiffer Sleeper:  Make a baby sleeper out of Swiffer material so when the baby learns to crawl, especially if he belly crawls like Xavier, your floors are clean and shiny with little to no effort on your part!

9.  Step Stool Beeper:  This device would detect motion and beep when you come within a couple of feet of the step stool.  So, when you're carrying a baby in the middle of the night, and you're not looking down, you won't run into the blasted step stool that's been left in the hallway for God knows what reason leaving yet another bruise on your shins.  Step Stool Beeper.  Don't laugh...you'll have one soon.

8.  Ipod/Baby Swing:  You can plug in your Ipod and play your favorite music while your baby swings rather than listen to that incessant twinkly lullaby music over and over and over and over and...three kids later...I'm over the twinkly tunes.  And how cool would it be to have your kids singing along with their sweet little voices to Lady Gaga?  OK, I admit, I haven't listened to any actual new music on the radio or anywhere else in so long, I don't even have a cool band in mind to refer to.  I think Lady Gaga sings...right?  ;)

7.  Creative Compliments App:  This app (ap?) would provide interesting ways to tell your kid they did a great job on their artwork, somersault, singing, counting, bike riding, dancing, pooping, etc.  "Good job" is just so vague and uninspiring.  But when you're worn out and the somersault was just OK, it's tough to really flex your lexicon.

6.  A Polite Comment T-Shirt:  There are times when I'm just tired of politely saying, "I sure do," and smiling when I'm told for the 18th time on my trip to Target that "I sure do have my hands full."  I know people don't realize that it's tiresome and unoriginal, so I don't want to give a rude retort.  And someone recently recommended saying, "Yes, but my heart is fuller!"  But I just can't say that with a straight face...however true it might be.  I'd prefer just having a T-shirt that says what I usually say myself those 18 times, "Yes, I do have my hands full, and I wouldn't have it any other way."

5.  A Tough-Mom Voice Recording:  There are a lot of moments when I think I'm being tough with my kids, but they're just not getting it and keep asking for what I've said no to.  But when I really listen to the sound of my own voice, I realize that it's way too sweet.  And when I try to sound really tough, I just yell and sound like a loon and scare Celia.  Mikey is typically unmoved by my over-the-edge mom voice.  Xavier typically shoves more puffs into his mouth.  So, I'd really like to be able to push a button on a machine that says in a firm, forceful, in control voice, maybe one with a British accent...that always makes things sound more official..."Mommy said no and she meant it.  Now mind your mommy."

4.  One-Step-Hair-And-Make-Up-Mask:  There are days now and again...like Monday-Friday...when it's tough to fit in doing my own hair and make-up.  And while I totally and completely believe in the idea that moms have to take care of themselves so that we can take care of our loved ones, reality is that sometimes Mommy chooses to sleep an extra 15 minutes to take care of herself instead of looking glam.  So, I propose a mask that has hair and make-up completely done on those days when yeah, it just ain't happenin'.

3.  Robotic Car Seat:  I get that car seat straps have to be tough enough to undo that kids can't just get out and hang out the sun roof, but it's a shame that they're also so hard to latch.  I calculate that I would save 1.7 million minutes a year if my kids could strap themselves into their own car seats.  Enter robotic car seat.  Patent pending.

2.  No Leak Juice Boxes:  Capri Suns are not welcome in my home.  I don't want to talk about it.  So, we've just started allowing juice boxes for snack time at school.  But really?  Et tu, juice box?  Why must they have bendy straws?  The kids pick up the box, and the strength of their baby grips is enough to squirt out the juice onto the Mater picture on the box, the Lightning McQueen picture on the shirt, and the Pixar logo on the shoes.  There has to be a stronger material to make those boxes out of.  There's got to be!  I believe that we have the technology.

1.  The Never-Ending Paper Towel Roll:  I'm sorry, Mother Earth.  I love you.  I recycle.  I take canvas bags to the grocery store.  I thought about walking the kids to school once.  But I draw the line at not using paper towels.  I love a good, strong, durable, absorbant paper towel.  I tried the ones recycled from old cardboard boxes or something, but I had to use ten of them to make up for their cheapness.  So, I get the good ones.  But seriously, with three little ones, I can go through a roll in about a hour and a half.  Between the Cheerio slurry that Xavier creates, Celia's near-constant artistic endeavors, and Mikey's drippy apple sauce episodes, we're not so earth friendly.  My new product will be the water jug delivery guy equivilant to paper towels.  But you'll have your own paper towel fairy who lives in the cupboard (that's right...I went with cupboard...no self respecting fairy would be caught dead in a cabinet...too bourgeois) and when she notices you've run out of towels, she'll pop another roll on for you right away!  And for an additional $9.95, she'll create clever art projects out of those empty paper towel rolls.

OK, so there are my ideas!  None are patented yet, so have at 'em.  I'll never get around to doing anything with them anyway.

Pee, Poop, and Goldfish Crackers

You know it's a Saturday night in the South (yes, I consider Tallahassee a part of the South, although most folks don't count Florida as such...Tallahassee is really south Georgia but it got lost and refused to ask for directions) when you get out of the shower and find your husband on the couch watching his favorite college football team on his laptop, his second favorite team on the big screen, and checking his Blackberry for other scores, all at the same time.  He politely offered me the T.V., but it was a great opportunity for me to get some scrapbooking done and he just looked so happy, I couldn't upset that lovely balance.  I finished as much scrapbooking as I had the enthusiasm for and thought I'd play around on-line.  I opened up Pinterest, my new Internet obsession, found a cool crafty coaster idea that I thought I'd send to my lovely and talented sister Beth, when I couldn't find her name on my list of people I follow.  Gasp!  Beth's the one who hooked me on this thing, and now she's given it up?!  She recently mentioned to me that she felt like the computer was a terrible time suck in her life and she was attempting to spend less time on it and more time getting things done like spending time with her sweet babies.  It got me to thinking about simplifying and what things I could scrap and be a little happier.

One of the commercials that was on during one of the football games (one of the seventeen that seem to be on at the same time...every time I look up there are different colors on the screen) said something about how many thoughts a person has a minute or something like that.  I joked to Mike that I have about three thoughts a day and they're all about pee, poop, and food.  Who needs to go potty?  Who is hungry?  Am I hungry?  When's the last time I peed?  And by the way, what's up with my children's new obsession with going to the bathroom with me every time I say I'm going.  Maybe I should announce that I'm going to the other room to eat broccoli, take a bag of it, and have five minutes of peace.  I'll have to try that.  Anyway, I digress.  Since becoming a mother, certain parts of life seem way more complicated than they used to be, like getting in and out of vehicles to go into stores.  But other things have gotten way simpler.  I used to spend a lot of time fretting over the future, over whether or not I'd ever find "the one."  I also spent more time that I'd like to admit organizing closets, arranging books on shelves, and shopping for deals on decorations inspired by HGTV shows, trying to make the house look like a magazine but not something I ever did anything in.  I'd even prop up the most difficult-looking piece of piano music on the piano to make it look like I was more talented than I am, which is not at all. 

Now that I've got three little ones, four years old and under, I spend very little if any of my day fretting about whether I'm living up to my full potential as a person.  I don't read self-help books focusing on whether I'm living my passion.  I don't mind so much if the house looks lived in.  I'm thrilled, in fact, that I finally have a full house of busy little humans making messes and living it up!  Yes, there are scuff marks on the wall, something they'd never tolerate in a decorating magazine.  And my linoleum floors aren't what a designer would choose, but man, are they easy to clean. I'm just happy to keep things simple. 

When we were trying to sell our townhome, we eliminated a bunch of the pictures and knick knacks to de-personalize it for showings, and I have to say, I loved not having to move those things around when I dusted, so we haven't put many of those things out once we moved.  I still enjoy the decorating shows, but I'm drawn to the streamlined designs now that seem efficient and kid-friendly. 

I'm interested in growing as a person and being creative, but I have to keep that side of life simple, too, or else I won't have time for what's really important, and that's having energy to keep up with my kiddos.  I'm taking a class at church, and it's great, but it's once a week and there's no homework.  That's doable!  I'm reading a book for pleasure, but it may take me three months to get through it, and that's OK.  I'm enjoying getting together with friends once a month or so to scrapbook, a great creative outlet for me, but if it takes me til Xavier is 2 to get his baby book done, that' fine, too.  I'm only doing the baby book, not one for each year of each kids' life, or I'd be overwhelmed and grumpy. 

Trying to keep up with three preschoolers is exhausting enough as it is.  I want to be present for them in these precious times I have with them.  Everyone keeps reminding me how fast the time passes.  These are all people with much older children, who know how it feels in retrospect.  I tell you some days seem to last an eternity, but I try to remember to savor those simple moments.  Here are the highlights from just one day of simple moments that I'm glad I was present to experience:

-Mikey dressing as Spiderman for our trip to Target and getting smiles and comments from children and adults alike.

-Celia making up a song about a princess eating a cookie and just belting it out with the passion of a televangelist as we drove in the van.

-Xavier pulling up on the little rocking chair that was Mike's when he was a little boy and just grinning up at us like he'd climbed Mt. Everest.

-Mikey insisting on giving me exactly three hugs and three kisses at bedtime, often kissing my belly or arm instead of my cheek...I'll take it!

-Celia making a new friend in the play zone at (you guessed it) Chick-Fil-A.  She makes friends more easily than anyone I've ever seen.  I envy that.

-Xavier splashing in the bubbles in the bathtub...there's nothing cuter than a chubby baby covered in bubbles.  Oh, maybe his baby buns covered in bubbles...that's cuter.

Yeah, I don't miss all the other clutter that used to fill up my brain on a daily basis.  I'm content to just focus on who needs to use the bathroom next and who needs their ration of Goldfish.  I'll read philosophy books another day.

What I've Learned About Parenting from Chick-Fil-A

I'm really not getting paid by Chick-Fil-A to write this blog entry.  Since having kids, I have just developed a real love affair with the Chick Chick.  And here are some of my reflections on just why I love it so. 

10.  Limited choices make life easier.  Chick-Fil-A makes grilled chicken and fried chicken, and they're both good.  Give your kids two choices, and they feel empowered.  Give them twenty, and everyone's overwhelmed.

9.  Take a break on Sundays.  I always want Chick-Fil-A on Sundays.  Because you always want what you can't have.  But what a great reminder to take a day of rest.  It's so easy to cram the week with all kinds of activities, but how great to just take one day to take a break from it all.

8.  Serve others cheerfully.  CFA employees don't just answer a "thank you" with a "you're welcome."  They go a step further and reply, "My pleasure" and smile.  In nearly every other fast food restaurant I ever go to, it's hard to even get the employees to make eye contact, so it's noticeable when this kind of service is offered.  And it makes me feel great and smile, too!  It's just a little thing, but it's a great reminder to not only make my children their food or bathe them or any of the other daily "chores" that I perform, but to do those things with pleasure...now that's the right way to live!

7.  Think ahead of the little things.  CFA has hand sanitizing wipes near the play area, place mats that stick to the table for kids, and little containers of Cheerios for the tiny ones to munch on.  They carry food to the table for you if it's obvious you have your hands full (say with three small humans).  And they even supply ladies with lady things in the ladies' room.  It's so nice to know that someone has thought of all of those things for me.  As a mom, I'm constantly having to think ahead to anticipate the dietary, toileting, and hygeine issues of my family.  Planning ahead makes them feel safe and loved.

6.  Simple things make special days feel special.  During the month of my kids' birthdays, they're invited to CFA for a party with other kids who share their birth month.  It's a simple event with a free meal, cake, a balloon, a T-shirt, and a little cow toy.  It probably doesn't cost a lot for them to put this on each month, but the kids think it's fabulous.  They get to hug a giant cow and play on a twisty slide; what more could a kid want?  So, why did I spend an hour earlier today trying to come up with the perfect party plan for each kids' next birthday, which is still three months away?

5.  Be efficient.  I've never been through a drive-thru that is faster than CFA.  They've been at this business a while and have a few things figured out.  Parenting is not so unlike the fast food business, right?  I mean you've got hungry customers demanding things of you quickly.  They want the same things from day to day, so be prepared with how to handle it.  Figure out which techniques work and which ones don't and repeat what works.

4.  Be present.  It's so lovely to me when the manager comes over and asks me if I need a refill and compliments my baby.  Squeeze my baby's chubby legs and ask my big kids a question or two about their names and ages, and it makes me want to become a regular.  Who doesn't want to come into a restaurant where they know your order or maybe your name and have a "Norm!" moment?  Maybe it's just me, but I like a little personal treatment.  It's so easy for me to go through the motions changing diapers, making lunches, cleaning up, and all the rest of the mommy duties without stopping to ask the kids simple questions.  How hard is it to throw in a, "What did you dream about last night" or a "What are you most excited about doing at school?" at every meal at least?  Mealtime is the perfect time to reconnect after a lot of busyness and a great time to teach conversation skills.

3.  Giant cows and brownies make everything better.  My kids adore that cow.  Even when Mikey was being pretty antisocial around age 2, he hugged that cow.  And their brownies...well, I heart them.  The parenting lesson here?  A little silliness thrown in to every day goes a long way with little ones.  And a little treat every now and then, for the kids and for Mommy is a good thing!

2.  You don't have to spend a lot for a meal to be special.  We just happened to stop at CFA on Valentine's Day one year.  We were doing our V-Day dinner out the next night, but we took the kids out on the 14th.  When we got there, they had cloth table cloths, lit candles, and red roses on each table.  They even had live musicians!  And you know what?  It was lovely.  There were couples there enjoying a strangely romantic meal.  What a great lesson for a mom who tends to spend too much money on toys and activities for the kids when they'd honestly be thrilled to just spend that time playing hide-and-seek with me in the house.

1.  Mealtime is family time.  Everything I've said so far is summed up in this statement.  CFA does a great job of offering food and an environment that appeals to both parents and kids.  We get our time together eating a meal we all enjoy, and then the kids get to play in the kids' zone, leaving Mike and me to chat together, just the two of us.  The balance of time with the kids and time with just each other is so important to every family.  Keeping the spousal bond strong through communication keeps the entire family strong.  It keeps the two of us on the same page as far as parenting strategies and gives us time to marvel at the amazing little people we've been given the honor of raising. 

And so while I'm not currently paid by the Chick Chick, I aspire to some day own a franchise.  ;)  Not really.  But I'll keep slugging their Coke Zeroes and munching on their waffle fries as long as they keep the inspiration coming. 

Why Does Wal-Mart Hate Me?

I don't enjoy Wal-Mart. Let me just go on the record. I dislike the fact that no matter which entrance I use, I will have to walk 26.2 miles to get to the three items I need. The elapsed time to walk to each corner of the store will require approximately 35 years. BECAUSE...on a good day, the store's just way too freakin' big and has too many things and too few people working there who give a hoot whether your shopping experience is pleasant or just one step up from a root canal.

But Wal-Mart has managed to make my shopping experience take even longer. Now I have to pack meals, wear a Camelback, and plan for naps in the bedding department for the kids (and myself). BECAUSE...of Cars 2 marketers. I will get you, Pixar! It's not enough now to just avoid the toy section when I go to buy formula, spring water, and toilet paper. No, they've got that insipid race car and tow truck turned into all kinds of nonsense that my three-year-old boy thinks is gold. Mater pillows, Mater water bottles, Mater snacks, Lightning McQueen booster seats, Lightning McQueen bandaids, Lightning McQueen wrapping paper, bubble bath, burritos, drain declogger, rock salt, and antifreeze. Wait, that last one might actually make sense. Anyway, you get my point. The products coat the store like Christmas decorations starting in October.

Oh, and Mikey, and I'm sure millions of other little boys eat it up! Mikey has to check out the Mater bubble maker for fifteen minutes begging me the whole time to spend $20 on this nonsense that will likely not work. Trying to convince a preschooler by saying something like, "Actually, Mikey, you're feeding right into the marketers from the movie company's money-making scheme. They think that they could put Lightning McQueen's silly picture on a rock, and little boys would want to buy it," would only receive an excited, "THEY HAVE LIGHTNING MCQUEEN ROCKS HERE?!"

So, now I know that when I go to Wal-Mart...until this Cars 2 takeover settles down, I need to go alone or pack a tent for an overnight stay. Ahh, who am I kidding? I don't need to pack a tent. I'll just buy the Mater tent over in sporting goods.

Watermelon, Taco Bell, and a Frog on the Toilet

It occurred to me today while shopping at Publix, where shopping truly is a pleasure.  For you out-of-Floridians, that's their slogan.  Where else can you take your kids to pick up a free prescription for antibiotics, get a free balloon, and a free cookie all while they ride around in a two-seater car cart?  Anyway, it occurred to me while shopping that I never used to buy watermelon before I had kids.  I never considered buying watermelon.  It's way too much trouble to lug that giant fruit into the cart to begin with.  Then cutting it up is a huge undertaking.  It's messy to eat.  And the seeds.  Oh, the seeds!  But today, while carting around Celia and Mikey, I spotted a huge crate of giant watermelons, and for a moment, I thought, "Man, the kids would LOVE to get one of those!"  OK, I admit that today wasn't the day to get one, but the fact that I'd even consider it just shows that life is way different with kids.

I want them to experience new things all the time.  And everything is so new and fascinating to them.  Their impressions of every single little thing in the world is influenced by the way I present it to them for the first time.  This fact has made me much more aware of my own attitude toward everything from frogs and bugs to vegetables and swimming pools.

I'm a total chicken when it comes to amphibious creatures who break an entering.  Froggies are not welcome in my home because they freak my freak.  Mike laughed at me the other day when I locked a frog in the bathroom for nine hours so that he could rescue it and send it packing.  He asked me what I was afraid of, and I told him what I tell him about frogs, lizards, mice, and any other tiny critter.  "I'm afraid it'll jump in my bra."  It's so utterly and ridiculous a fear that it makes him laugh, and then he just takes care of the problem. Yes, that means he had to leave work once to retrieve a dead mouse in a mouse trap much to the entertainment of his fellow attorneys.  I don't care who laughs at me.  One day, a roach is going to leap down Mike's shirt, and he's going to admit that I was right all along.  But when my kids are around, I try to fake it.  When Celia was tiny, there were all of these tiny baby frogs that would hang out on her little sliding board in the back yard.  They were so tiny, I'm sure at least fifty could have fit into my bra easily. Needless to say, I wasn't so thrilled to be so close to them.  But, I didn't want Celia to worry.  After all, she wouldn't be wearing a bra for some time, right?  So, I took some deep breaths and faked it. "Look how cute the froggies are!  Oh, they're babies.  I wonder if they're looking for their mama."  And Celia was delighted by them.  Clearly I failed her on the bug front, since she refuses to eat in a restaurant if she's seen the tiniest gnat near her food.  She'll politely ask the waitress for a To-Go box and wait til she gets home.

I've digressed completely and utterly from my original point though.  Noticing and enjoying new and different things now that I have kids is just such a joy.  We literally stop and smell flowers.  No parking lot puddle is safe with my kiddos.  Making ice cream is way too much trouble, unless you have kids who just might enjoy learning about the process...or a husband who would.  We once stopped during a walk to water a worm who looked too dry.  You do not go to the mall without a load of pennies to throw in the fountain.  When going through a drive-thru, we have to roll down their window too so that they can introduce themselves and tell their ages to the attendant.

I'm learning as we go that we slow down and make time to do all of these things.  That might mean that a trip to a store to get two things lasts an hour, but there are so many new things to see, taste, smell, hear, and touch.  Every single moment of the day is full of learning and doing.  Man, those kids can suck a day dry...in a good way.  I mean they absolutely pay attention to things that are really pretty inane.  I mean who gets worked up over taking the overpass?  MY KIDS!  "Mommy, it's the flyover!  Oh, thank you for taking us over the flyover!  We can see everything from up here!  Look!  It's Taco Bell!"  While their daddy does enjoy a cheesey gordita crunch (with extra sauce), it cracks me up that the sight of Taco Bell could thrill them so.  They've never been to Taco Bell.  They don't like tacos when I serve them.  But seeing it from up so high is a complete and total thrill.  And I love that.  I used to fake enthusiasm for these things, but slowly, as I see things through their eyes, my feigned excitement is becoming more genuine.  You know what?  Seeing Taco Bell from way up high is pretty darn cool!  And even that frog (that Mikey swears broke the toilet...the toilet broke in an unrelated incident) was kind of cute in his own way.  Viewing the world from a preschooler's vantage point isn't all butts and knees.  It's pretty awesome and full of fresh, new thrills.  Maybe this mama will even get over her fear of critters.  Or maybe I'll just finally get that watermelon.

Savoring My Queen Bee Status Just a Little Bit Longer

Celia drew this picture of herself and me today. I'm the one with what looks like a halo on my head.  It's actually my hair band, she told me.  If you've seen me in the past few years (or knew me in high school when I sported the same look), you'll know that until my recent haircut, I wore a hair band every day to keep that mane out of my face.  I don't know how other long-haired women do it who seem to always be facing the wind.  I don't see them in the parking lot of Target, holding the hands of two toddlers, a diaper bag, a purse, and pushing a stroller, all the while, looking like a stunt double for Cousin It.  But I digress.  That is me and my hair band and I LOVE this picture.  I love it not just because these are some of Celia's first drawings of people and that they actually have bodies and not just floating heads with limbs stuck out of the sides.  I love it not just because of the fact that she included the details of her ubiquitous bow and my hair band.  I love it because it's a picture of just us two.  And no offense at all to daddy who asked her to include him in the drawing, but it's special because it's just us girls.  And in her mind, Mommy totally rocks.  Because right now Celia is four.  And I know that life will change.  I taught middle school for eight years.  I know what's coming.  I'm totally savoring the fact that for now, both she and Mikey want ME to hold their hands while we shop.  They want ME to sit on their bed and hold them while we pray at bedtime.  They call for MOMMY in the middle of the night when they're sick, need more water, need their noses wiped, need their tushes wiped, need me to wipe tears away and (as Mikey puts it) "feel me better."  I'm truly soaking up the moments because I know that soon enough, Mommy will no longer be anything close to cool.  But I also know (I taught middle school for eight years, remember?) that I'm going to continue to be there for all the times they need me to "feel them better" just in new and different ways.  I remember what my dear friend Jane's mom used to tell us.  I became friends with Jane in the eighth grade, so Mrs. Bible got to know me during my most heinous years, I'm sure.  She was a wise woman.  One of my favorite of her quotes is, "Nothing goes right when your underwear's too tight."  All kidding aside, I really did learn much from her.  I remember she told us that she truly enjoyed every age and stage that her girls went through.  That each new era brought new joys and gifts. I hold onto that as I see these sweet preschool years going way too quickly by.  I am savoring every hand hold for now, but I embrace the sweetness that the future years will bring as well.  And when Celia is rolling her eyes at me as I try to take her picture on the first day of eighth grade, you can bet I'll be clutching that picture that she drew of the two of us today.